Sunday, May 17, 2009

My Spanking in Front of 150 Vanilla People…

So, readers, have you ever been spanked in front of a Vanilla before? If so, when, where, and why? How did it make you feel?

I had my first experience of this in front of about 150 vanilla folks all crowded into one room watching as I got a classic OTK bare bottom spanking with my panties tangled around my knees until I was kicking and screaming like a little girl… and I loved every minute of it!

:-)

Last night at APEX, our local play space, we opened our community doors to about a hundred and fifty vanilla Psychologists, Therapists, and Researchers interested in human sexuality that came to watch demos on spanking, fire play, electric play, flogging, and suspension. This was a closed event for the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) Conference that was held in Phoenix this last week. http://www.aasect.org/default.asp

It is so uplifting that these open minded people want to better understand the spanking and kink communities and why we do what we do. Ma’am and I represented the spanking community by doing a classic school girl/Teacher role-play complete with lots of scolding, OTK, ruler, strap, hairbrush, and plenty of bratting from me. Here’s a re-cap of the event:

We arrived early to the event to say hello to friends and to set up our demo space. A leather padded spanking bench had been provided for us to use. It was placed up front and center to some of the other demo spots and in view of most of the crowd that was in the process of arriving. Ma’am and I, along with all the other demo people, wore name tags and a short list of topics we were comfortable answering questions on. My topics included—Spanking and Discipline, Uniforms, Role-plays, Bratting, Littles/Age play, and Video Actress. This was so that the event attendees could interview us after the demo with any questions they had.

As we set up and talked about our role-play with each other, the therapists and research people had started to arrive. One Woman grabbed a seat right in front of our spot and listened as Ma’am and I discussed what we were going to do. The woman remarked that she liked to see that we were negotiating and stating our needs to each other. I blinked hard at that one. It’s what we do every day and it’s not something I have to think about.

After we set up we went to the back of the room and waited as everyone got seated and the introduction speeches began. There were short talks about what our community represented, how big of a deal it was that we opened the doors to our world for these people to see, that we were all consenting adults doing what we love/need/want to do etc. The lights dimmed then, and the five or so demos took place simultaneously.

Ma’am decided to do a school role-play. She was dressed in a classic School-Marm navy pleated jumper dress, white blouse, hair up, and ruler in hand. I wore my real Catholic red plaid jumper, white blouse, mary-janes, braids, and gum chewing pouty face. Right from the start of the role-play Ma’am began a strict scolding, telling me off for sassing Her in class, being willful, and an overall brat. I responded by twirling my hair and blowing a bubble with my gum. She took my chin in hand and made me spit it out. She then stuck the piece of gum to my nose and made me stand up. She took me OTK and proceeded to spank me over my dress asking me;

“What happens to naughty little girls when they misbehave in class?”

I grunted from a partially hard smack…"They get spanked.”

“What was that? I couldn’t hear you. Louder for the class to hear!”
“They get a SPANKING Ma’am!” I sassed and reached back to cover myself as She pulled up my dress and down my white cotton panties. I kicked and fought and She leg locked me with one of Hers and pulled out Her new vintage 1950’s Bakelite oval hairbrush and proceeded to remedy my sassiness. After a minute of sound hairbrushing She made me stand up and bend over the bench for 12 of the best with a thick cane.

“…That goes without saying that you are to count and thank me for each stroke Miss Mack. Is that understood?”
I mumbled a “Yes Ma’am” and received a medium force tap on my bottom.
Here’s the funny part…I didn’t count and respond right away because, in a usual caning, Ma’am taps me like that many times before a real hard stroke. It took me a minute to realize that She was going lighter because of the Vanilla crowd. I realized this and quickly responded with a “One! Thank You Ma’am!” While trying not to laugh. The caning proceeded and we reached number seven and She began to ask me questions to distract me from the counting. Well, I lost count and heard the dreaded…

“Well, that means we get to start all over again…from the beginning!”

By now I was very much into the headspace of a naughty school brat accepting her discipline. The caning continued until 12 and I was ordered to stand up. I was asked, “So, did we learn a little lesson?”

I thought for a moment, scanning the crowd of dropped mouth faces and decided that I really hadn’t…yet! I responded by sticking out my tongue….

The crowd gasped and made the classic ‘ooooooooo!’ sound. Ma’am grabbed the 18 inch ruler and forced me back over the bench. She kept me there by draping one of Her long legs over my lower back to hold me down and spanked the day lights out of me! I was kicking, screaming, squirming, and thoroughly chastised by the time She was done with me. She removed Her leg and ordered me to stand up. My face was beet red and tear streaked. She told me to turn all the way around 360 degrees (so the audience could see) before telling me to pull up my panties and fix my dress.
“Now…have we learned our lesson Jenni?” She asked me, tapping the ruler against Her palm.

“Yes Ma’am…” came my very humbled reply.
The 20 minute role-play ended there and Ma’am sat and took me on Her lap to sit (owwie!), to be rocked and held as I came down. We hugged and I kissed Her cheek as we watched everyone else wound down from their role-plays. The lights came back on and the AASECT Members were invited to have refreshments and ask any questions they had. As Ma’am and I cooled down and drank water, right away, people came up asking lots of questions. I got questions and comments like:
“Are you okay? Your actually sitting?”
“How does that feel? How long will the marks last? Can I see again?”
“Why do you like this? What do you get out of it?”
“Are you anything else besides a school girl in role-plays?”
“How’d you get started in this?
How’d you all meet?”
“That was exactly what I needed to see…Thank you!”
“That was hot and really turned me on. I was not expecting that!”
“Intense, shocking, and touching…where can I find out more about this ‘spanking’ thing?

People came by twos and threes asking things for about an hour. It was great to have all these people so interested in understanding why we do what we do and why we like it so much! They were genuinely engrossed and curious to learn about us. It was very validating for us. Ma’am and I are still buzzing from the event. We have never done anything like this in front of people who are not spanking or kink related. The energy was electric and charged by the mixing of spankos, kinkies, and vanilla all in the same room!

And, it was just downright HOT!

Thank you to AASECT for coming to our space and being open minded to what it is that we do! Thank you APEX for opening your doors and being so trusting to the Vanilla world to allow them a peek into TTWD. Thanks to the other volunteers to made this event possible! Thank You Ma’am for a wonderfully fun scene!

So, readers, back to my question… have you ever been spanked in front of a Vanilla before? If so, when, where, and why? How did it make you feel?

5 SMACK The Mack!:

A.S.S. said...

Excellent post, Jenni. Very fun read... and what a cool experience. We've never done a spanking for even one vanilla. At least we don't think we have, lol.

Have done a demo for other spankos though. But's that pretty easy, because you realize they understand this thing we do.

Do you think anyone watching was basically shaking their head? Do you have how the spanking would happen worked out before starting?

Very interesting!

:)
~Todd & Suzy

wailer said...

That must be the coolest blog entry EVER! wow, talk about hot! You must have felt little and squirmy and hot and embarrassed and cool and high!

Anonymous said...

What an interesting night. It had to have been very validating and rewarding to take part in such an event. I would love to take part in something like this in which everyone comes with an open mind from different walks to share/experience/ and understand one another. Thanks for sharing!!
Lizzy Madison

Wednesday said...

Heh--not all of them were vanilla. I seemed to be a lightening rod for confessions that night....

Angie said...

Wow! I can't even imagine going to a party, let alone getting spanked in front of vanillas!